I’ve spent decades fundraising and assisting organizations and individuals in need. I’ve noticed a few fundamental flaws which I believe have been causing dependency rather than solving the problem itself. Our acts, gifts and donations are filled with great intentions but sometimes end up enabling the individual rather than engaging them in participating to solve the problem. The act of engaging to solve the issue instills pride and a sense of accomplishment. Without the individual taking an active role, I’ve noticed the following. At first glance, the individual is appreciative of the support given. They receive the gift graciously and utilize it with the best of intentions at that moment. If the need is a simple one where the funds resolve the problem completely, there is usually no further issue. If the problem requires ongoing financial or interactive support, the individual’s emotional state begins to migrate towards anticipating the assistance. Without active participation, the individual anticipates the support and comes to expect it. However, with their participation, I’ve noticed an emotional satisfaction derived from their achievement resulting in heightened self-esteem, dignity, honor and self respect. Without contribution and the individuals involvement, they not only expect the assistance, but they become dependent on it. They move to a level of entitlement and the feeling of appreciation that once existed fades to a right. The focus is no longer the solving of the issue but solidifying the ongoing benefit. 
I believe that everyone has the ability to bring something they can contribute to help in solving their specific problem. We all have talents which provide the possibility of a sort of barter for assistance. This I believe, will keep the individual on the road to self reliance rather than total dependency.